Since I have a reputation for being the “Confused Virgin”, I know that some may ask not only about why I am confused but also why I am a virgin. No one should need to ask this question because my lack of sex life is none of their business and is irrelevant to whether they should do sex or not.
But I have been asked before if I am a virgin and why. My answer is very simple, I don’t have the time to do anything sexual. I am much too busy writing about other topics which are more relevant than sex. The idea of my first book was to write about my sexual confusion so that people will no longer need to ask me about it.
I am neither for nor against any people of any sexual orientation or practice. I know that what other people do is irrelevant to my life.
Right now, I am a virgin. My current plan is to stay that way. Not because I consider sex to be immoral, but I am busy enough with my job and my writing. I do not have time to be a parent on top of this.
At the same time, I am against “Abstinence-only sex education“. I would rather help make the world a better place so that the children who are born are not exposed to the same things which ruined parts of my life. I think that fighting abortion, pornography, and religion is the best way for me to do that.