I never did get the concept of dating. It seems that dating is just a social thing that people do which has no meaning to me. When I have any friend who happens to be a girl, some people assume that I have some “romantic” or “sexual” interest in her. It shows how little they know about me if they think this.
I do not like someone as “more than just a friend”. I also do not dislike someone as “more than just an enemy”. Some people come up with all kinds of categories for their relationships with each person. I do not have the type of memory which would allow this.
I would appreciate it if someone would explain what they mean when they talk about dating or marriage. I do not understand these things at all. When someone says that they are dating someone or gets a boyfriend, girlfriend, husband, or wife, should I be happy or sad?
I think that the reason so many people get hooked on dating someone is that they are looking for a friend. It shows that they do not have someone they can connect with.
My thoughts always come back to who is relevant to me. When someone is relevant, no longer do I feel the need to date or marry them. Instead I write about them on my blog.